Lex

Just how universal is love? And what role, if any, does privilege play in our access to and experience of it? This piece aims to answer these questions and more, and to figure out what we might do with the answers!

I've wanted to share this story with you for some time about two seemingly very different roles - one of which involves emotional tyranny, misery-making, and the disempowerment and manipulation of others. The other can make you a very interesting person to speak to at parties! Hi, I’m Lex, and I’m a recovering people pleaser. Allow me to take you back to a time in my life over a decade ago. I was living a pretty idyllic life. I was growing my own vegetables in the garden of my “forever”...

An exploration of the desires and motivations behind pegging, from the perspective of the receptive partner.