Creating a new form of wealth
Would you like to be wealthy?! Financial wealth has become so synonymous with success and happiness that it's very easy to be captured by...
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Dec 31, 20237 min read
Brace yourselves for some (fabulous) failure!
Your New Year's Resolutions are probably going to fail but here's why they are still important and valuable!
Oct 16, 20234 min read
How to be with suffering
How can we take action in response to suffering? Here I explore some options for the overwhelmed, and call us into connection.
Aug 19, 20234 min read
What to expect in an Exploration session
The who, what, and why behind my Exploration sessions, which are available one-to-one or for duos and triads.
Aug 2, 20235 min read
The power of submissiveness
Outside world power dynamics impact how we engage in D/s power play. What can we do to ensure everyone feels empowered?
Jun 9, 20235 min read
The gift of boredom
“I’m so BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORED”. It’s almost a rite of passage from childhood to becoming a teenager to face this dreaded affliction (and...
May 2, 20236 min read
Missing out on living
One of the things that drew me to this work was the sense that I was "missing out" on living. It was a pervasive feeling for many years -...
Feb 21, 20234 min read
Power, Pleasure, and Play: full-colour living through kink
In this piece, I share a little on how I view kink, and not only how it fits in the work I'm doing, but why I think an ethical and conscious
Nov 22, 20226 min read
On the act of resting
Following on from my last blog "From here, I can give" about getting our own needs met before serving others, I want to highlight that...
Oct 10, 20226 min read
From here I can give
At the beginning of September, I travelled to Bilbao to attend the "Like a Pro" training from the School of Consent. This deeper dive...
Aug 25, 20224 min read
Falling, flowing, or unfurling? The act of loving
Love keeps popping up - somewhat unsurprisingly - in my writing recently and so I would like to dive deeper today into the act of loving....
Aug 3, 20225 min read
So what is Sexological Bodywork?
A description of what Sexological Bodywork is, what a session might involve, and why someone might want to explore this.
Jul 21, 20229 min read
In celebration of the different flavours of love
Are you single? I was asked this question recently and it really stumped me. The person asking was expecting a yes/no answer but ended up...
Jun 28, 20227 min read
Loving people out of their shame
When people ask me what I actually do as a pleasure coach, I have found that the most succinct way to describe it is I "love people out...
May 30, 20225 min read
The sweetness of the orange
I was teaching recently alongside Seani Love at the "Erotic Mysteries Deep Dive" - a week-long, intensive exploration into sacred...
Apr 26, 20225 min read
Navigating The Void - field notes from an avid story slayer
You've heard me speak a lot about “tearing up the rulebook” when it comes to taking a critical look at the stories we have been told...
Mar 21, 20225 min read
Becoming intimate... with grief
I have wanted to write a piece on grief for some time now but hesitated out of fear that I would be taking us off-course from the topic...
Jan 12, 20225 min read
Who’s in charge here? A call to consciously fill your pleasure cup
Our brains are hardwired to seek pleasure and avoid pain so whether you like it or not, you are prioritising pleasure!
Dec 21, 20214 min read
Trading courage for comfort - the highs and lows of a pleasure-oriented life
I spent a lot of time thinking about what my “job title” should be as I set up my business. The challenge with using my professional...
Nov 14, 20212 min read
From satisfaction to ecstasy - the experience of pleasure
An exploration of what pleasure actually is and how to access it, for those who feel unable to experience it.
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