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How to be with suffering

How can we take action in response to suffering? Here I explore some options for the overwhelmed, and call us into connection.

The power of submissiveness

Outside world power dynamics impact how we engage in D/s power play. What can we do to ensure everyone feels empowered?

The gift of boredom

“I’m so BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORED”. It’s almost a rite of passage from childhood to becoming a teenager to face this dreaded affliction (and...

Missing out on living

One of the things that drew me to this work was the sense that I was "missing out" on living. It was a pervasive feeling for many years -...

On the act of resting

Following on from my last blog "From here, I can give" about getting our own needs met before serving others, I want to highlight that...

From here I can give

At the beginning of September, I travelled to Bilbao to attend the "Like a Pro" training from the School of Consent. This deeper dive...

So what is Sexological Bodywork?

A description of what Sexological Bodywork is, what a session might involve, and why someone might want to explore this.

Loving people out of their shame

When people ask me what I actually do as a pleasure coach, I have found that the most succinct way to describe it is I "love people out...

The sweetness of the orange

I was teaching recently alongside Seani Love at the "Erotic Mysteries Deep Dive" - a week-long, intensive exploration into sacred...

Becoming intimate... with grief

I have wanted to write a piece on grief for some time now but hesitated out of fear that I would be taking us off-course from the topic...

Tearing up the rule book

In my role as a Sexological Bodyworker, I work with people from a wide range of ages, sexual and romantic orientations, gender...

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