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The Altered States of Kink: A Guide for (submissive) Explorers
Learn about the altered states that can be experienced as the submissive in kinky play, and ways to navigate the transitions smoothly.
Feb 95 min read


Creating a new form of wealth
Would you like to be wealthy?! Financial wealth has become so synonymous with success and happiness that it's very easy to be captured by...
Mar 17, 20244 min read


Brace yourselves for some (fabulous) failure!
Your New Year's Resolutions are probably going to fail but here's why they are still important and valuable!
Dec 31, 20237 min read


How to be with suffering
How can we take action in response to suffering? Here I explore some options for the overwhelmed, and call us into connection.
Oct 16, 20234 min read


What to expect in an Exploration session
The who, what, and why behind my Exploration sessions, which are available one-to-one or for duos and triads.
Aug 19, 20234 min read


The power of submissiveness
Outside world power dynamics impact how we engage in D/s power play. What can we do to ensure everyone feels empowered?
Aug 2, 20235 min read


The gift of boredom
“I’m so BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORED”. It’s almost a rite of passage from childhood to becoming a teenager to face this dreaded affliction (and...
Jun 9, 20235 min read


Missing out on living
One of the things that drew me to this work was the sense that I was "missing out" on living. It was a pervasive feeling for many years -...
May 2, 20236 min read


Power, Pleasure, and Play: full-colour living through kink
In this piece, I share a little on how I view kink, and not only how it fits in the work I'm doing, but why I think an ethical and conscious
Feb 21, 20234 min read


On the act of resting
Following on from my last blog "From here, I can give" about getting our own needs met before serving others, I want to highlight that...
Nov 22, 20226 min read


From here I can give
At the beginning of September, I travelled to Bilbao to attend the "Like a Pro" training from the School of Consent. This deeper dive...
Oct 10, 20226 min read


Falling, flowing, or unfurling? The act of loving
Love keeps popping up - somewhat unsurprisingly - in my writing recently and so I would like to dive deeper today into the act of loving....
Aug 26, 20224 min read


So what is Sexological Bodywork?
A description of what Sexological Bodywork is, what a session might involve, and why someone might want to explore this.
Aug 3, 20225 min read


In celebration of the different flavours of love
Are you single? I was asked this question recently and it really stumped me. The person asking was expecting a yes/no answer but ended up...
Jul 21, 20229 min read


Loving people out of their shame
When people ask me what I actually do as a pleasure coach, I have found that the most succinct way to describe it is I "love people out...
Jun 28, 20227 min read


The sweetness of the orange
I was teaching recently alongside Seani Love at the "Erotic Mysteries Deep Dive" - a week-long, intensive exploration into sacred...
May 30, 20225 min read


Navigating The Void - field notes from an avid story slayer
You've heard me speak a lot about “tearing up the rulebook” when it comes to taking a critical look at the stories we have been told...
Apr 26, 20225 min read


Becoming intimate... with grief
I have wanted to write a piece on grief for some time now but hesitated out of fear that I would be taking us off-course from the topic...
Mar 21, 20225 min read


Who’s in charge here? A call to consciously fill your pleasure cup
Our brains are hardwired to seek pleasure and avoid pain so whether you like it or not, you are prioritising pleasure!
Jan 12, 20225 min read


Trading courage for comfort - the highs and lows of a pleasure-oriented life
I spent a lot of time thinking about what my “job title” should be as I set up my business. The challenge with using my professional...
Dec 21, 20214 min read
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