How can we take action in response to suffering? Here I explore some options for the overwhelmed, and call us into connection.

The who, what, and why behind my Exploration sessions, which are available one-to-one or for duos and triads.

Outside world power dynamics impact how we engage in D/s power play. What can we do to ensure everyone feels empowered?

“I’m so BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORED”. It’s almost a rite of passage from childhood to becoming a teenager to face this dreaded affliction (and...

One of the things that drew me to this work was the sense that I was "missing out" on living. It was a pervasive feeling for many years -...

In this piece, I share a little on how I view kink, and not only how it fits in the work I'm doing, but why I think an ethical and conscious

Following on from my last blog "From here, I can give" about getting our own needs met before serving others, I want to highlight that...

At the beginning of September, I travelled to Bilbao to attend the "Like a Pro" training from the School of Consent. This deeper dive...

Love keeps popping up - somewhat unsurprisingly - in my writing recently and so I would like to dive deeper today into the act of loving....

A description of what Sexological Bodywork is, what a session might involve, and why someone might want to explore this.

Are you single? I was asked this question recently and it really stumped me. The person asking was expecting a yes/no answer but ended up...

When people ask me what I actually do as a pleasure coach, I have found that the most succinct way to describe it is I "love people out...

I was teaching recently alongside Seani Love at the "Erotic Mysteries Deep Dive" - a week-long, intensive exploration into sacred...

You've heard me speak a lot about “tearing up the rulebook” when it comes to taking a critical look at the stories we have been told...

I have wanted to write a piece on grief for some time now but hesitated out of fear that I would be taking us off-course from the topic...

Our brains are hardwired to seek pleasure and avoid pain so whether you like it or not, you are prioritising pleasure!

I spent a lot of time thinking about what my “job title” should be as I set up my business. The challenge with using my professional...

An exploration of what pleasure actually is and how to access it, for those who feel unable to experience it.

In my role as a Sexological Bodyworker, I work with people from a wide range of ages, sexual and romantic orientations, gender...