top of page

Creating a new form of wealth

Would you like to be wealthy?! Financial wealth has become so synonymous with success and happiness that it's very easy to be captured by...

How to be with suffering

How can we take action in response to suffering? Here I explore some options for the overwhelmed, and call us into connection.

The power of submissiveness

Outside world power dynamics impact how we engage in D/s power play. What can we do to ensure everyone feels empowered?

The gift of boredom

“I’m so BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORED”. It’s almost a rite of passage from childhood to becoming a teenager to face this dreaded affliction (and...

Missing out on living

One of the things that drew me to this work was the sense that I was "missing out" on living. It was a pervasive feeling for many years -...

On the act of resting

Following on from my last blog "From here, I can give" about getting our own needs met before serving others, I want to highlight that...

From here I can give

At the beginning of September, I travelled to Bilbao to attend the "Like a Pro" training from the School of Consent. This deeper dive...

So what is Sexological Bodywork?

A description of what Sexological Bodywork is, what a session might involve, and why someone might want to explore this.

Loving people out of their shame

When people ask me what I actually do as a pleasure coach, I have found that the most succinct way to describe it is I "love people out...

The sweetness of the orange

I was teaching recently alongside Seani Love at the "Erotic Mysteries Deep Dive" - a week-long, intensive exploration into sacred...

Becoming intimate... with grief

I have wanted to write a piece on grief for some time now but hesitated out of fear that I would be taking us off-course from the topic...

Blog: Blog2
bottom of page