What do YOU need to experience to surrender into connection?
Do you:
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Feel disconnected from your desires, or what you want/don’t want?
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Worry that your fantasies might be a sign of something wrong with you?
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Experience unwanted fantasies that you feel some shame or confusion about?
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Find that attempts to reenact your fantasies can be enjoyable but never quite scratch the itch?
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Feel sad or concerned that your partner/s don’t share the same fantasies, and that this might come between you?
Well, the good news is that you are not alone, and there is a way forward from here that will leave you feeling more connected to yourself, and able to drop into a far deeper connection with others (if you choose).
Fantasies come up a LOT in the work that I do with my clients (whether in obvious or subtle ways). Sadly, even within the conscious sexuality world, fantasies can be overlooked, undervalued, or pathologised as the focus is often on bringing people out of their minds and into the felt sensations in their bodies. However, I believe that it is by connecting the body AND mind that we can move towards wholeness and a greater sense of aliveness.
In this coaching programme, we will work together to unlock the rich potential of your fantasies.
Exploring our fantasies is not just about having better sex but about tapping into the wisdom of our unconscious mind. This opens us up to deep insights about how we perceive ourselves and our place in the world, with vast possibilities for growth and creativity that will touch every aspect of your life.
The programme
Unlocking the Potential of Sexual Fantasies is my one-to-one programme for people interested in working with me directly to access this rich source of transformation.
It comprises FIVE online coaching sessions that can be scheduled weekly or fortnightly to suit your schedule and pace of learning.
Over the course of the programme, we will cover:
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Your beliefs, values, and associations and how these impact you
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Building a strong and supportive connection with your Desire
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Why we have fantasies - their role and purpose in transformation
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Fantasy Readings to identify the key themes of your fantasies and how these can be drawn upon to create DEEP connection with yourself and/or your partner/s
IThe focus of my teaching is on creating a space for you to experiment, have embodied experiences, and talk about anything that is being stirred up. Each session is therefore tailored to you, so that we can allow time for this to occur, rather than sticking to a super strict curriculum!
You will receive homework to complete between each session, which you can engage with solo or with a partner.
This work is heavily influenced by my intensive training in the deVinery Method for Sexual Fantasies by Artemisia de Vine, whose mentorship I continue to receive. I may also drawn upon my professional training and experience as a Certified Dominatrix, Sexological Bodyworker, Embodied Facilitator, and Conscious Kink Practitioner and my knowledge of depth psychology, the Wheel of Consent, and understanding our nervous system responses.
Is this suitable for me?
I LOVE to do this work with:
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People who want to understand the meaning and purpose under the surface of their desires and fantasies, rather than just endlessly trying to reenact them in unfulfilling ways
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People who are curious about diving deep into their psyche
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People willing to try new approaches and perspectives, and share details of their fantasies or peak experiences as material for us to learn from.
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People who can commit time and capacity to explore both in and between sessions (this can be solo or with partner/s)
Regardless of whether you believe you have a rich fantasy world or not, you will be able to benefit from this approach.
If you feel you fit in the descriptions above, then you're probably a good fit for the course! I work with adults of all ages, genders, sexualities, and relationship orientations.
What's included
FIVE x 90-minute, one-to-one sessions with me, which will be delivered via Zoom.
Homework practices will be sent to you between sessions via email to support integration and deepen your understanding.
These sessions do not include the enactment of your fantasies with me, although it is possible for us to add on an Exploration at the end of the programme at a discounted rate.
The schedule
There is no fixed start date for this programme so you get to choose when you're ready to begin (for as long as it's still running!)
Sessions can be scheduled weekly or fortnightly, with regular timeslots currently available mornings, afternoons, evenings, and weekends to accommodate different time zones.
All sessions will be scheduled in advance, with some flexibility to reschedule should “life” happen so long as all five sessions take place within 6 months of enrolment.
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The cost
I am currently offering this programme for £600 for the remainder of the year, for which you will receive 7.5 hours of one-to-one coaching time with me, plus homework tasks to support your integration and practice between sessions.
** If you are keen to join but feel that the price is the only limiting factor to attending, please get in touch and I will see what we can do to make this more accessible! **