Something to sink your teeth into...
I've added here some free resources that you may find helpful. These include materials that I use when teaching as well as recordings of some of my talks.
Video links will take you to YouTube because of the grown-up nature of the content!
VIDEO: Power, Pleasure, and Play
In my first talk at The Sex Lectures, I invite us to imagine a world in which we are ALL unashamedly kinky. For those who are ready to dive in (or already a little lost a sea), I introduce my work-in-progress manifesto for how we can approach kink mindfully and as an act of empowerment for all.
VIDEO: The Lure of Erotic Destruction
One year later, and I was back on stage at The Sex Lectures! This time I invite you into my ponderings on the complexities of eroticism with a peek under the hood of what might be driving a particular type of request I receive as a practitioner. Can you guess what it is?!
PROMPT SHEET: What makes kink "conscious"?
Here you'll find some prompts for personal reflection based on my working manifesto around how we can bring more consciousness to the way that we play.
PROMPT SHEET: Preparing to Play
I put this together as a handout for my classes and workshops to help people with any pre-play discussions. It includes an exercise to figure out what you might do as well as a checklist for negotiation.