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I remember when I first qualified as a Sexological Bodyworker thinking: “Well, obviously this kind of work should be available to clients alongside other more conventional therapies.” I reached out to local wellbeing centres at the time to see whether they’d be interested in me offering sessions there. A couple got back to me showing some curiosity, but it never led to anything. And so, I set up a workspace at home and steadily built my practice in my own way. There were many
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[GUEST POST] The objectification kink - what it is, why it matters, and why it might all be OK
This blog post was written by Susan Lucas to accompany our podcast discussion on the same topic. It's a deeper dive than my own posts - I'd expect no less from a philosopher(!) - and definitely one for my fellow pleasure geeks and sapiosexuals! Introduction Experience suggests that many people, and particularly many women - including many who would generally align themselves with feminist ideals and principles - derive pleasure and satisfaction from the experience of being se
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