This blog post was written by Susan Lucas to accompany our podcast discussion on the same topic. It's a deeper dive than my own posts - I'd expect no less from a philosopher(!) - and definitely one for my fellow pleasure geeks and sapiosexuals! Introduction Experience suggests that many people, and particularly many women - including many who would generally align themselves with feminist ideals and principles - derive pleasure and satisfaction from the experience of being se

I've wanted to share this story with you for some time about two seemingly very different roles - one of which involves emotional tyranny, misery-making, and the disempowerment and manipulation of others. The other can make you a very interesting person to speak to at parties! Hi, I’m Lex, and I’m a recovering people pleaser. Allow me to take you back to a time in my life over a decade ago. I was living a pretty idyllic life. I was growing my own vegetables in the garden of

An exploration of the desires and motivations behind pegging, from the perspective of the receptive partner.

Learn about the altered states that can be experienced as the submissive in kinky play, and ways to navigate the transitions smoothly.

The who, what, and why behind my Exploration sessions, which are available one-to-one or for duos and triads.

Outside world power dynamics impact how we engage in D/s power play. What can we do to ensure everyone feels empowered?

In this piece, I share a little on how I view kink, and not only how it fits in the work I'm doing, but why I think an ethical and conscious