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From people pleaser to Professional Dominatrix
I've wanted to share this story with you for some time about two seemingly very different roles - one of which involves emotional tyranny, misery-making, and the disempowerment and manipulation of others. The other can make you a very interesting person to speak to at parties! Hi, I’m Lex, and I’m a recovering people pleaser. Allow me to take you back to a time in my life over a decade ago. I was living a pretty idyllic life. I was growing my own vegetables in the garden of
Feb 125 min read


The Psychology of Pegging
An exploration of the desires and motivations behind pegging, from the perspective of the receptive partner.
Nov 19, 20254 min read


What to expect in an Exploration session
The who, what, and why behind my Exploration sessions, which are available one-to-one or for duos and triads.
Aug 19, 20234 min read


Power, Pleasure, and Play: full-colour living through kink
In this piece, I share a little on how I view kink, and not only how it fits in the work I'm doing, but why I think an ethical and conscious
Feb 21, 20234 min read


Navigating The Void - field notes from an avid story slayer
You've heard me speak a lot about “tearing up the rulebook” when it comes to taking a critical look at the stories we have been told...
Apr 26, 20225 min read


Trading courage for comfort - the highs and lows of a pleasure-oriented life
I spent a lot of time thinking about what my “job title” should be as I set up my business. The challenge with using my professional...
Dec 21, 20214 min read
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